http://andreawilsonwoods.com/happiness/2008/10/20/loss/ Pondering happiness, hope, and wisdom Mon, 30 Aug 2010 17:36:30 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://andreawilsonwoods.com/happiness/2008/10/20/loss/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Doug Sat, 24 Jan 2009 01:18:09 +0000 http://andreawilsonwoods.com/happiness/?p=29#comment-15 You could definitely call me in the middle of the night. I'm up anyway and feel the same way about my phone list as you do. The thing you have to keep in mind about that is that there are a lot more people you can count on than you think there are. A friend will go to jail with you. A good friend will break you out. A husband will laugh while posting bail (depending on the charges, anyway). Knowing you, most of the people you consider friends are a lot more loyal to you than you can beleive when you feel like shit. Sometimes it's difficult for people to say things other than the "oldies but goodies." (It'll be ok. You'll feel better tomorrow, etc) It doesn't mean they don't care. It just means they don't know what to say. The people that ask why you called to tell them you feel like crap are the ones you should delete from your phone. Try one night when you feel like shit. You'll be surprised by the people you know. You could definitely call me in the middle of the night. I’m up anyway and feel the same way about my phone list as you do. The thing you have to keep in mind about that is that there are a lot more people you can count on than you think there are. A friend will go to jail with you. A good friend will break you out. A husband will laugh while posting bail (depending on the charges, anyway). Knowing you, most of the people you consider friends are a lot more loyal to you than you can beleive when you feel like shit. Sometimes it’s difficult for people to say things other than the “oldies but goodies.” (It’ll be ok. You’ll feel better tomorrow, etc) It doesn’t mean they don’t care. It just means they don’t know what to say. The people that ask why you called to tell them you feel like crap are the ones you should delete from your phone. Try one night when you feel like shit. You’ll be surprised by the people you know.

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